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Stepmonster trying to replace me
My ex-husband had an affair with the woman who caught the bouquet at my wedding. She was present in the hospital during the birth of my children. Since our divorce she has married my ex-husband. She is constantly overstepping her boundaries and acting as if she is the mother of my children. She adds herself to the email lists of school & sporting event contacts. She takes them shopping for clothes. I was fired as a wife; I did not quit as a mother. I wish she would back the hell off!
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- Just be glad she is showing an interest in your children. Would you rather her be nasty to them? Oh wait, yes you would because you need some outlet to exact vengeance on your ex-hubby, namely through the children. I'm sure no one has to teach you in the ways of parental alienation.
- I agree - you should be pleased that she is interested in being a part of your children's life. If it upsets you that much, perhaps she should have a baby of her own with her husband. That way she can concentrate on her baby and you can have your kids back to take them shopping on your own. Sounds like you are looking for a reason - ANY reason - to dislike her....
perhaps a life of your own is in order... - Why is it that when you try to care for another woman's child, you are immediately looked at as interloping? I don't get it. I have a 7 year old stepdaughter and I cook for her, bathe her, entertain her, and buy clothes for her when she is in my care. I am not trying to be her mommy, I am only trying to give her added love. You should be grateful that your childrens' stepmother cares for them.
- I wish my two girls' stepmother was nice like this. My children do not like to go to their dad's house but I always tell my girls to respect their home and try to help her out when they can. My ex had an affair with this woman and divorced me. They married and now have a child together. My youngest and their daughter are only 4 years apart but they expect my girls to babysit their 4 year old daughter. After all, she is their half-sister and while I don't agree with how our marriage ended I must be the adult here and make sure that I don't say anything bad about their dad or stepmom to them. Very important. It will only backfire. Try to look on the good side and appreciate the fact that this woman is taking time with your children. It's hurts to think that you were "replaced" but don't be the victim here. You are a person that deserves respect and he apparently did not give you this. Don't be like him and disrespect yourself or your kids. Let your children make their own minds up and respect their opinions. Children are smart.
- What would you rather have? Do you want the stepmommy to beat your child black & blue? Do you want her to treat the child like yesterday's trash? Did not think so... Rather be grateful that she has respect for your child, she is not obligated to love and care for your child, but she still does it even if you treat her badly. Think about what's best for your child, not you. And yes she could have a baby of her own but will that change everything? NO. She will still help with the homework and buy her clothes. Having her own child will not make her ignore your child. C'mon be realistic..... ♥Loving Stepmommy♥
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