I too dated a man whose ex-wife controlled him. He, however, had no children. This did not matter. She would make appointments to take the dog to the vet, and expect him to accompany her. She expected him to call her on Christmas, their anniversary, her birthday, etc. If he didn't, she would send him a email telling him how depressed she was, and how much she missed him. She would invite him over to her house for dinner, and encourage him to meet her out of town for dinner, concerts, movies, etc. She also expected him to attend family functions with her, such as graduations of her nieces, her nieces soccer games, her parents birthdays. However, she never had any desire to meet me. When he tried to introduce us once she walked away. She was the one who chose to end the 20 year marriage so she could date her dance instructor. They would call each other 3-4 times weekly, and she would come by the school he teaches at to visit him. He never could understand why this was upsetting to me. He would simply tell me that there was nothing to worry about. He was with me and that should be enough. It was a very painful experience for me. We broke up several times over this, would get back together, and I would continue to find out that he was seeing her or talking to her almost daily. We broke up for the final time around 6 weeks ago, and she has already been with him to visit his family twice. However, he has already posted his profile on dating sites. I do not think that either of them want to get back together, they just can't let go.
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"I do not think that either of them want to get back together, they just can't let go."
That sums it up nicely. They are both just convenient, familiar and comfortable with each other. It's easy to stay in your comfort zone.
everything they do is like a marriage. I do not see why there was a points in a split up. if they are in a comfort zone then they are in a married zone.
that is dis respect to you and treating you as a adulterious.
leave him and find somebody that will respect you.
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