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enough of your double standard
I broke up with my bf of 2.5 years about a month ago and have been using the reason that he had more time and money for his car, guitar, and friends than he did me. (which is true) But only recently have realized that what really caused it is that he started trying to change me.I’m the type of girl that typically wears makeup and he used to be okay with that, even said he liked that about me but all of a sudden I had to look nice for him any time we left the house. We went to wal-mart late one evening just so he could change his schedule. Well he insisted that I put makeup on and change into something nicer. Why? because he just had to show me off to his friends. But apparently I’m no longer good enough to be shown off without getting fixed up. No I was more like an old dusty trophy that has to be polished so you can make an exhibit out of it. I HATE that.
Not to mention when all of a sudden I couldn’t cuddle with or lay on him when we were on the couch but he could lay on me (and he weighs twice what I do) no I had to just there next to him and god forbid I speak during the commercials because he’s trying to hear them but if I’m interested in the tv show than I’m not paying enough attention to him.
And on another note he was jealous of my guy friends, my GAY guy friend because I gave a side hug twice. Ex’s words “I don’t want you hanging all over him anymore” umm yeah two side hugs that’s totally hanging ALL OVER him. Of course he gets to be all buddy, buddy with his old crush who he said is “the only other girl I ever truly loved.” And of course there’s the part where I’m expected to always be available to see him but he will ditch me to go see his damn friends. don’t get me wrong I like him seeing his friends I think it’s healthy to maintain friendships outside the relationship but when he saw them twice as much as he saw me I felt just a LITTLE unloved and unappreciated.
Well I feel better now even though I’ve only scratched the surface of our problems. :)
I’ve felt much better this past month than I have all year. And to think I actually believed he was the one. So naïve.
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