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Send to a friend My husbands ex wife has gone to the end of the world and back to try to drive us crazy! At the beginning of our relationship 5 years ago, she would harass us over everything she heard in her little town of 500! On weekends he got visitation with his daughter...which was a nightmare on many levels. The 5 yr old daughter (at the time) would come over on Friday night and start in: "my mom says.....my mom says" The best ever was the time she came over and told me that her mom said that people who go to college (of which I am a college graduate) just dont want to work (of which I worked all through college and have a full time job now) and because they dont work they are just poor!! (Her mother neither went to college or works! Shes a stay at home mom in her new marriage). On weekends we had visits, she would also call our home, both our cell phones, and my husbands grandparents home and leave screaming messages because she loves to drive us nuts!!Then there is facebook....Her mother (a 50 yr old woman) badmouths me and my husband all the time!
Then there is the monthly attacks. It usually happens once a month or every other month. Its like she sits at home, because she doesnt work, and thinks of things to do or say to us! Whether its a phone call to manipulate my husband, or seeing me in public and screaming "f***ing bitch" infront of her children...or letting everyone know how she loves our $400 child support payment because she buys clothes for herself with it...its always something new with her.
One time she called my husband and told him she needed his credit card number. Of course he didnt give it to her. But she said she needed it because the one they had on file at the Walmart Pharmacy was expired and she needed to get their child a prescription (of which shes supposed to pay for). Whether its manipulation or FRAUD...its always something ...
When we got engaged two years ago, we emailed her for information on annulment papers. She refused to give it to us....and we eventually gave up on the annulment. But a two weeks after we asked for the info, she sued to terminate his parental rights!! Nice woman right? She also called to try to talk him into it by saying: "you wont have to pay for her anymore...she says she doesnt want you to be her dad anymore....she has a new dad....I want my new husband to adopt her..." Then when the courts found in our favor, she called to say "I only sued you to wake you up"!! Whatever that meant!!
Then most recently....wedding week. The day before they were to leave to go to the neighboring state for our wedding, she had her 7 yr old daughter call and tell my husband she didint want to attend his wedding!! Then his ex told him that if she didnt want to go she wouldnt force her. Since when do 7yr olds run households and make adult decisions!! She was supposed to be in our wedding, just like when she was in her mothers wedding 4 yrs ago!!
Can you believe a remarried women, who ended her marriage to my husband because she was sleeping with another man (her new husband), who has started a new family...still is so psycho?!?!? I CAN! Between never seeing his child on holidays because she wont let us, to suing us, to brainwashing her own daughter, to having her younger brother call and threaten to beat me up, or having her husband call and threaten my husbands life (twice)....she leads a sad sad life!!
Shes so nuts I have so many stories I could write a book...and plan on it someday!
Comments
- I know how you feel! Some of the same things is going on with my husband and I and his ex-wife after SIX years. Look up Narcissist. Hope it helps.
- You should write a book!
I can help if you want. - Wow, I totally understand. My hubby's ex is the same way. She uses the kids whenever she can. Remarried (this is her second one since my hubby and I married) and now a stay at home mom. Quit her job to live off of her newest husband. UGH Why do they have to be so crazy and dumb?
- Just keep telling yourself you only have to deal with it for x number of years. I myself only have 15 1/2 years left....Some days it helps.
- Ever notice how they contradict themselves?
" I will never leave my daugter alone with you" and then the next day " Why can't your new wife look after her for a while?" Crazy Bitches All of THEM!
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