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Selfish & lazy Parents

I am in the process of trying to get my lazy ex husband and his menatlly unstabe new wife to understand that our children ages 11 and 6, deserve to participate in sports. Right now the ex flat refuses to even take them to games, practices or recitals. He doesn't even pay a dime towards their sports so it is like pissing my money down the tubes, plus he is consistantly 2 months or more behind in child support. He gets cought up and bam by the time I receive the caught up money he is behind again. he also sues me EVERY YEAR costing me a minimum of 3000 dollars each year. Because his father pays his lawyer nothing comes from his pocket and the judge continually falls no fault on me and we start over.
At what point does this end? I am tired of this crap and need for this problem to go away, grow up or what ever.

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  • Unfortunatly..there is not much you could do...except see if you can take them to the sporting events on his time....I had the opposite proble. my ex put them bothe (girls) in sports and forced htem to play...after three years of it they had enough and i refused to take them or let him take them...before that season started i told him they did not want to play and i would not pay for it...he put them in anyway..i had forwarned him that theu would not go...he tried to force me..i stood my ground..we are just too opposite. Our rule was..if the kids WANTED to do it and one of us did not agree then the person that does agree witht he kids paid for it...anything with sports he paid for...I padi for all the other stuff...example....one of my daughters wanted to be in art...she has been for over two years now and is advanced art in the 9th grade...expensive...well because it is not a sport he refused to pay..he is a history teacher and a football coach. I have learned that therer is not much you can do except go to court or just figure out a way...maybe he will let you take the child on his time....he wont have to do anything.art in school..i covor all supplies...

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