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Send to a friend I just want to spend time with my son!! He loves me and I love him. I'm a great Dad and you know it. Why do you insist on using him as a weapon against me?!?! I'm sorry the marriage didn't work out but just let me be a father to my son! You want my money? Fine. Take it! Just let me be a Dad. Our son deserves that!!I hate you and i'll never forgive you for this!
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- That is probably why she is keeping your son away, the way you talk sounds a little scary. Try to have a talk just you and your ex about your son. This may help. Be rational no matter how bitchy she gets.
- Thanks for the comment. I just came on here to vent as I have been nothing but calm, cool and collected in my discussions with her. I finally reached breaking point the other day with her non-rational behavior and needed to blow off some steam.
- She can't disallow access to the child. Take her to mediation. Paying her will only enabling her already bad behavior.
- take her to court. Now. Costs money but the reward is priceless. Save every email she sends you. Communicate thru email only, unless you can record your phone conversations. You can use written proof of her refusal to support the father son relationship.
Get a lawyer. Save everything. Once you have the proof, ignore her and go to court Don't waist your time trying to talk a crazy person into sanity. Let the judge do the talking.
In some states, Parental Alienation is looked down on by the court. Get a lawyer, and you get your son.
- She will never change...just make sure you document everything...and make sure you email each only so you have a paper trial...GOOD LUCK..
- Are you divorced or what? You need to STOP gettign into these conversations and fights with her and get an attorney involved! Document EVRYTHING and educate yourslef on PAS (parental alienation syndrom) and DONT" have ont he internet ANYTHIGN that can be used against you...deragatory bloggs or statements about her or the situation, "questionable" sites/profiles becasue TRUST me if you do they can be used against you BUT inteh same repect look and see if she does and save them start googling her name etc and see what you find or what is connected to her and STOP ENABLING HER your not doing yourself , your son or even her any good!
- Women use children as another form of control. You must run not walk to an attorney to get this under control. The damage she is doing to your relationship with your son has to be stopped before it gets really bad. You have no idea how bad the parental alienation can get. My best to you and I hope you never forget that your son needs you.
- am an xwife and I am wondering why this man was not allowed to see his son..just b/c he was bieng an upstanding good man or was he using drugs and boozing to all hours of the morning and not showing up for scheduled visits....YES ladies (or men_ document every email, every attempt you have made to make this work. BUT when someone keeps going back to things that are to harm a child...when is enough enough!!!!!!
- I feel your pain and fustration as a father myself and also dealing with the same type of chaos. what really gets me is how women get away with it, put the shoe on the other foot and every cop in town would be chasing us down and beating on us while handcuffed. women are so screwed up in the mind to begin with, hell most cant even pay their bills but the judge seems to think they can handle the huge responsibilty of doing the right things in the intrest of the child and well being. im preparing to fight for my son but it takes alot of money, personal restraint of hurt emotions and time. my ex ran away with our son 7 years ago...count it...7 years, i finally found her address and am educating myself and seeking legal advice instead of over reacting and banging on the door. in the end the only outcome i really hope for is to see him even if its only once...its a tough legal system we have and its very discrimitive against fathers winning custody from the start....till the day i see his face again he will always be a picture in my heart and a memory in my mind....stay focused and time heals all wounds
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