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EX says her kid is none of my business!

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. He has two kids, one from a previous relationship and one from his last ex. The divorce was nasty in that she took everything including the kitchen sink - she loaded up a truck and took all the furniture except a bed and couch.

Anyway my bf works some weekends and apparently she has this idea its my fault that he is not seeing his daughter as much as he use to. I told about his schedule and she seemed ok. Now she is telling him to break up with me since he is not spending every weekend with his kid. Well I have two kids and he has another child, but she is the only one that matters. I try calling her and she has sworn at me and just hangs up. She will call 20 times in a weekend to pick up her support cheque, but never to call and tell us something wonderful about this child.

She knew he was good to her and cant let him go. She tries to throw her bf in his face. She is a underachieving bar fly that works in a part time job a high school kid could do. She talks like a little girl and tries to be all nice to my bf when she wants something. She parties with her bf on the weekend and dumps the kid where every or she sleeps on someone floor at the party. The kid wears hand me down and her hygiene and manners....leave it at that. I was raised a family person, her lifestyle and cheating ways make me sick and yet my ex just excuses her bad behavior as her being not very bright or screwed up. Obviously she is threatened by a well educated woman that make more than she could ever earn. I pay my share of bills, she never did.

I am sick of her games she plays with the child. She will make an arrangement and then change it and then has the kid call and ask why daddy's isnt coming for her. I told her she is gonna screw up the kid and get some parental course or counselling. We have also caught the child calling the bf "daddy". - Ouch!!!!

My ex is scared to say too much in case she does something or says things to the kid. But I think she needs to be told by him to stop her crap! Help !! what would you do?

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  • Well technically it is not any of your business. Unless you are actually married to him, his kids is none of your business. You really have no say so.
    The sad truth is you are not carrying his name so there for you have no business. Until you establish some ground that you are truly a couple as one!!! a boyfriend is free game. Living with him or not.

    So you do not like what is going on? Look real good this is what the future with him is about.

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