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Hi, I live in the USA. My husband(Ken) and I were married 11yrs when he moved out a year ago. It was a mutual split; no cheating that I can prove. On Xmas I find out that he moved in some girl he met off the internet. He claimed they were just friends and she was to help pay the bills.(Really, he cannot think for himself let alone Take care of our 2 boys on his own) During his 50% parenting time. Now they are sleeping in the same bed my 6 yr old told me it was because she does not have her own bed. Ya! A 41 yr old woman that can move from one place to the next victim with only a suitcase!!!! Fishy, I think so. I know for fact thanks to the ever great internet that she is a dead beat MOM that LOST custody of her kids after her divorce and she has not paid child support since Jan. 2009. Now she(Michelle) wants to mother my kids and interfere in our ongoing divorce!! We had a very civil friendly divorce going until she came into the picture. And ya wanna hear his side??? He says I am not looking out for the kids because I am VERY concerned about them getting attached to his woman. After I supported him emotionally and finacially thru 2yrs of college and 3yrs of crappy jobs or unemployment now he wants me to pay him equity from this house. I say he deserves nothing!!!! I was supposed to get to quit my job and go to college after he got a GOOD job (which he has had for 3yrs now) but he took that security away from me when I was pregnant when he decided he did not love me anymore. That was about 6 1/2yrs ago. He did love me again after his college graduation though. That would be why we stayed together then. Honestly, our marriage failed because I could not count on him to have my back!!! He is a video game freak and his mother babied him so he was not MUCH help around the house. The only thing I have missed since he left is him taking out the garbage on Mondays!!!! Pretty sad I know!!! Ken would tell you that he did try but it was never enough for me. Ya, it never lasted!!! I got so disgusted in him that I hated to even look at him. That is my own fault for hoping and hoping that it would get better and it never did. So when he moved into his Dads house that he inherited almost free and clear(IMPORTANT note by the way) I really again HOPED that he would understand it all when he had to do everything I was doing. Mow the grass, think about what to make for supper, pay the bills, do the laundry, vacuum, go thru boys clothes when setting up for garage sale. You get it, all but take out the garbage!!!!
WOW, now that is some ranting and your only getting half of it!!! Seriously, I committed MYSELF into anger rehab when Michelle would not only read but then actually write in the PARENTS log as if she were Ken or her own snotty sarcastic remarks about time MY boys spent with her when they could have been with ME their MOM!!!! Ya I did go up to their house and want Ken to tell her to stay out of it or I would tell her(she could not even face me, her back to me making coffee)SERIOUSLY!!!!!!!!!!!! SO I punched the door window and thru a booster seat at it(never broke it)but she called the cops. I was afraid they would use it against me to try and take my boys from me so I thought I better be proactive. Now my lawyer tells me the courts will hold that hospitalization AGAINST me. OMG I just keep getting screwed over!!

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  • OMG ...Kim from a friend that use to care and support you! You need to stop your antics and get some help! We don't have to give you the shovel, you are digging your own hole to bury yourself in. Wake the F&%$ up! From someone that use to care.
  • What a dead beat!!! he sounds like a big fat loozer!!!!!!!! andn her??? what a HOOKER!!! is she from the quad cities area??? wow sounds like the michelle that my 72 yr old uncle hooked up with,, she stole 4000.00 from him!! and the poor guy has cancer... he met her on the internet and she had nowhere to go.. untill the next victem that is, that she met off the internet!!!! wow!! she needs to be stopped !!!! men beware of a michelle that needs a place to live she is a user if it is the same woman,,, by the way does she have 3 kids??? one in collage and a 12 yr old and 8??? hmmmm sounds real fishy,,
  • "FRIENDS?" Part 2 Hey it is just me. I forgot to say that it was literally maybe 1 month after he lectured, begged and stressed to me, "Please don't bring a man around the boys till you know it is for sure." When I asked him how he would like it if I moved some stranger that I met off the internet in with the boys and me. He said "I don't know, it hasn't happened." Omg, this and all his lying, I just can't take it!!!!In Illinois, he inherited his Dads house so that is NOT included in marital property!! He can make alot of money selling that but he wants to take, take and keeep taking from me!!!
  • I will help you in any way I can kim.Don't worry about ken getting the kids your a great mother have know you for a long time. And would go to court and tesif. for you if you like. There r ways of taking care of the shit your going through If you would like to know just ask Todd (hells Our Home M/C
  • From one friend to another I would like to let you know that everything will get better eventually. I am hopefull that you and ken will be able to atleast be friends for your boys sake after you two get the bs over. I dont blame you at all for what you did. I would have been really pissed too. ken's gf could have given you a little respect and ken should have said something to her. she didnt have any right to write stuff about your boys and kens a dumbass for letting her. (lets get some eggs girl!) And about the lawyer's comment that the hospitilization will be used against you. I dont believe that for a minute. The past is the past, you were proactive, any judge will understand that cause their real people too. I think lawyers go to school so they can get people really upset and drag everything out so they make more $$$! Anyone that knows you, definitely knows YOU are an awesome Mom. Your awesome with kids! Theirs absolutely no doubt in my mind that YOU are truly an amazing lady in every way! I got your back!!!!
  • I find it interesting that out of ALL of us you sent this to you only have 3 comments. Did you ever think that maybe some of us are smart enough to realize there is two sides to every story and that just maybe your wrong at some level. STOP trying to suck us all into your stupid wacked out games because we are finally starting to figure you out. Good mom? Maybe in the past but not now, if people knew what you were really doing I think they would agree that you your recent and current actions tell a different story. Sorry friend or not I can't support you in what you are doing.
  • Well FRIEND, let me tell you that whatever the hell u think or have been told, I have been the one concerned about the boys well being in my decision making. I have always been the responsible one taking care of the kids and teaching them about courtesy and respect for the ones you love!! Ken can't even remember to pick them up!! 3X now he has left the boys sitting until I get the call and take care of it. Fuck YOU to ur face if your willing to show it!!!! Support me in what I am doing?? I can take care of me and my boys w/o the help of a internet whore who has no job, no car and no kids because the Judge took them away from her!!! Ken chose this instead of making his family work. That would be thanks to his MOM for always babying him and doing everything for him, instead of teaching him responsibility to care for himself!!!! I supported his lazy ass for 5YRS of schooling, unemployment and crappy jobs! The last job he got fired for sleeping on the job! I don't care about him anymore. I don't care that his tramp is using him. All I care about is my boys and it would help if MICHELLE would be a big girl and stay out of it!!! Her own mother testified against her and tells me that she just thrives on chaos and tension. So that is NOT what she will get from me.!!! Thank You
  • I find it disgusting, but some of the comments I am reading about Kim are absolutely untrue.
    If you actually knew her as well as you think you do then you sure wouldn't be writing this BS here. Didn't your mother ever tell you "if you don't have anything nice to say then its better to say nothing at all"?

    Dont believe everything you here! Kim is a dear friend of mine and everything she does or the decisions she makes are in her kids bests interests. Her whole life revolves around them kids even if you dont think so. I'm sure she doesn't really care what you think about her, but it is hurtfull and discusting in my opinion. I know Kim well enough to know for certain she is the most loving, caring, and giving person you will ever meet. Sure, everyone makes mistakes throughout life and their are always two sides too every story. Hell I been in this same type of situation myself and it was a real SOB sometimes. I have seen some of the neet things she does for them two and as far as I'm concerned she is an awesome mom. I have been told lots of things from different people in passing. The fact is no matter what shit I hear I will always believe in Kim. If ya dont like what I read maybe you need "a swift kick in the ass aye"? Friends4sure
  • It amazes me how "SUCKED IN" people can be. And how ignorant some can be. Number one learn how to spell and use proper english. Love the "double standards" , so what you're saying is it's ok for her actions and her mistakes BUT not for others. You truly are blind! You obviously are only getting one side of the story and that is more then apparent. She even admits to her own stupidity and mental issues and then turns around and shows her volital attitude by a threat. Obviously the person that wrote "We don't have to give you the shovel, your digging your own hole" is on to something or knows a lot more then you. And your comment to the other writter about kicking thier ass just shows your as low and immature as her. Well atleast you two have each other.
  • In response to the critisism I received after I left a comment on here. I did not get on here to judge anyone or be negative intentionaly. I really dont care if I ever hear the other side of the story. I care about Kim. I really dont give a hoot about Ken's side! The past is the past. They both made mistakes. No one is perfect. The only thing perfect in this world is God. So, I guess I must be blind, sucked in, low and immature then. I love the last thing ya said "well atleast you two have each other". Yep, friends4sure (have a nice life)
  • Well lil miss SUCKED IN like you have ever known how to spell or anything about proper......anything!!!! You should learn something about courtesy and respect for the boys involved and mind your own business!! Showing up at PARENT/TEACHER conferences, really, you don't even go to your own kids conferences!!! Do you LOOOOZER?? What kinda threat would your volatile sick brain be talking about? You are the one who threatened me right in front of 3 kids in the back seat of the truck!! As for your double standards, what you should be asking about is what a hippocrit Ken IS!!! He has done everything that he asked me not to do! He is putting our poor innocent boys in the middle every time he brings his girlfriend around me at my house and at the boys functions! Why don't you grab a shovel and dig yourself out of Ken's asshole and get your own life!!! Try building a home that includes your kids instead of trying to take mine! It is NOT possible to prove ME unfit!!!! Unlike you, the JUDGE took your kids away!!! What's it gonna take for you to grow up and be responsible for yourself and kids? At least the ones that haven't disowned you!!!
  • Who is this woman screaming at ? A friend of mine told me to check this site out and I can't believe how stupid people can be and how many detramental posts there are here. DO people even know who they are talking to in reality here. I for one will not visit again. I don't want any part of this kind of thing. Obviously there are a lot of ignorant people that don't realize that this can be used against them and I am amazed at how many admit there guilt all over here. Scary!!!
  • well id like to meet kim , she sounds like a woman i would like to help raise my boys , morals and respect, thats what raising kids is all about .
  • She sounds like an ugly cunt.
  • e go skew un lurndid how ta spel ingrish, butt dey idnt teech how ta speek IGNORANT!

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