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We had tons of fun on our dates. We had sex once. Every night after that though, we’d get to the front door and she’d say she was tired. I took that to mean she didn’t want to do anything. Being raised to respect women, I never pressured her. So we’d go to bed and I’d hold her tight.
She broke several dates on me. We were supposed to go to a wine tasting party, but she said she didn’t want to go because there were certain people there she didn’t want to deal with. She wanted to stay home and rest. I asked if she wanted company. She said no, she wanted a break from a really busy week. She sends me a text that night telling me she went to the party because her friends forced her to go and even sent someone to get her. Then she had the audacity to ask if I was mad.
I had a romantic evening planned once for dinner and window shopping around an affluent part of town. She texts me 30 minutes before our date and asks if I really want to spend one-on-one time with her, because her friends wanted to have game night.
A friend of mine invited US to dinner for her birthday. My ex decided to go to a baseball game instead because she has season tickets and her boss wanted a free bobblehead they were giving away. She was supposed to meet us at a bar after the game. Her brother was supposed to drop her off and I’d take her home. She shows up with her friend, stays an hour and takes her friend home. I ask to come over. She doesn’t want me to come over, but claims she does. She can’t decide.
My same friend invited US to a second birthday dinner at a trendy restaurant. We made plans to carpool with her and her BF. Thirty minutes before we’re supposed to go to my friend’s house, my ex calls and says a friend’s mother is having a medical emergency and she’s taking them to the hospital instead.
Our last week together, I text her on a Wednesday asking how her day was. She didn’t respond until midnight. The next day she asks what I’m doing that night. I sais I thought we were going to watch the hockey game together. She said a friend is having “issues” and she needs to console her. I said ok. At 7:30 she texts me and says she and her friend drank too much and it looks like she’s stuck at the friend’s house – 45 minutes from my house. At 9:30 pm she asks if I’m ignoring her. Apparently she sent a text that said “no offer to rescue me?” I had my phone on me all day and I never got the message until she asked if I was ignoring her. We argue over the texts.
The next day I email her plans for the night. She doesn’t respond until 2 p.m. She breaks up with me over email. She didn’t even have the nerve to do it in person. She has a long list of bogus issues she has with me – I’m not assertive, she doesn’t feel wanted physically or emotionally, I never make an effort to see her, I never have set plans for our dates, I live with my mother (I am her caretaker because she is disabled), we weren’t having sex, we don’t talk about things important to her. She wants to cut things off, but claims she enjoys spending time with me and wants to be friends. Then she says she’s truly sorry.
Later she posts a music video on facebook implying I dumped her. Then she posts photos of herself partying it up with friends that night. She posts a personal ad on craigslist a few days later.
I was assertive. I made every effort to see her. I made plans and something would come up. I never broke dates, I never penciled her in around baseball and hockey games like she did to me. She’s the one who didn’t want me spending the night half the time. She was the one who was too tired for sex all the time. She could have brought up important topics to discuss.
We had a phone conversation a few days after the breakup. I asked to work out her stupid “issues” and she didn’t want to. She said they weren’t going to “magically” disappear. Then she said she needed tim to think and she’d talk to me later. She never did. She posted ads on craigslist every other day for a months.
I feel lied to and betrayed. I told her I was crazy about her and she ripped my heart out and stomped all over it.
I now have trust issues with women and feel miserable, because she wasn’t the first to dump me this way. When a woman shows interest in me, I think she’s just being friendly. I hate her so much. She has destroyed my self-confidence. I wish I never met her.
Rating:3.50
Comments
- typical mind games. womans brains dont quite function like a rational logivc person a lot of times. They like always making up things to try and justify anything they want to do even if it means constantly lying to do so.
- She wasnt into you for whatever reason. Maybe you weren't doing something she thought you should and it tweaked her out. Im dating or was, a dude like this. He is so cheap he doesnt even buy half of groceries and Im cooking and then wonders why I am stand offish an break plans, I think about it an then think y am I going out with a jerk? So i break plans. No one else to date though and try to make excuses for him and then i just cant justify him being a cheap loser. I keep hoping he will just get the hint as hes sure buying a $400,000 house...gee I wonder why Im so unaffectionate when he is so cheap. So u are doing something she doesnt like. Think about it as you say happens often. Tryin to help!
- Hey pal get over her! Don't waste your time or energy thinking about a nut case like her - she's not worth it.
- Dude, sounds like she was NEVER into you. You were, and still are, infatuated with her. You sound like a nice guy, and I think you dodged a bullet. Just imagine how crappy your life would be if you married her and then her true character came out. My advice, get a bottle of Jack Daniels, burn your photos, drink a shot for every picture you burn, then look for a trust-worthy mate. Lastly, learn to be a little selfish once in a while. Treat yourself, follow your interests, that will make you more attractive to women.
- Let me tell you something as a woman. First off, do not make future women reap the consequences of what this bitch sowed. I've been the bitch, and I've been the rebound and believe me, the rebound is much more painful for girls. From my personal experience (which is unfortunately extensive) it sounds like she's not sure what she wants right now, fuckbuddy, boyfriend, husband...she's just not sure. Whatever it is, she decided early on it wasn't you, and didn't really have the heart to tell you. Did she pick fights? Did it seem like she was always finding a reason? Girls are weird, guys are assholes. It's about being who you are, and finding someone that loves it.
- Sounds like another run of the mill crazy bitch, like my second wife, I hope that twunt gets hit by a truck.
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