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I'm a Human ATM for a non-working Lazy Bitch

OK- I am sure I am not the only guy who has had this experience, but this is the place to vent....so here goes....
I chose to leave my wife of 11 years. My 'relationship' was sucking the life out of me. It was time to make a change. I did not want to set the wrong example for my kids; nor did I want to be in a marriage where my wife was more of a roommate than anything else.
Since I moved out (over 1 1/2 yrs ago), my wife has looked at me as her meal ticket. She has treated me like I am an ATM. She has not worked. She hasn't attempted to earn a dime. I have been paying for EVERYTHING. Don't get me wrong. I will gladly support my children. I also would have no problem paying the bills for the house they occupy until my ex worked---IF SHE GOT OFF OF HER LAZY, EVER-EXPANDING BACKSIDE AND LOOKED FOR A JOB. She is a teacher for crying out loud. There are multiple job openings where we live.
I cannot wait for the judge to tell her to go to work. Until then, I must listen to her whine about not having enough to live on.
Can someone tell me this: WHO COULDN'T LIVE ON $70,000/yr??? That is what I pay that money-grubbing sloth.
Am I missing something? Where in my marriage vows did it say "You promise to allow her to do absolutely nothing and spend as much money as she deems necessary" ??
Man, I pray that Karma catches up with her. Also, that my divorce is over soon. Enough is Enough!

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  • I sure hope your situation gets better. Unfortunately, mine is still the same as yours after being divorced for 10 years!

    My lazy, stupid, ex-bitch has not worked in 10 years and constantly takes me back to court to get more money. I guess her full time job is torturing me in the courts. I am still her meal ticket after ten years.
  • I need a passcode for your atm machine i am a new model on the fashion circut and need new clothes p.s. my name is Hector
  • I know the feeling. My ex-wifes fat ass isthe same way. Dont worry, they will all answer to someone when they die and gues what???? WE WILL HAVE THE LAST LAUGH!!!!!!!!!!!
  • LOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL WAT A LAZY LIL B**CH
    i dunno y u put up with such idiocy!!

  • Women are cunts by birth,it's no wonder they are treated as such in other cultures...
  • When it comes to relationships, women are basically parasites looking for free ride. There is a great essay out there on the web entitled "Why Marriage is a Raw Deal for Men". This lays what a lousy deal (financial and otherwise) marriage is for men. There is also a great website that also lays this out: www.nomarriage.com. Had this type of information been widely available (before the interenet age), I would have made business decision not to get married (at least to an American women).
  • am a women and i just want u guys to know u r right most women are like that, but not all women. i could never be a gold digger. i think that it should be up to both parents to support the child. i see alot of women using kids as meal tickets and that shit is not right. when i split with my ex i took my kids and for 6 years i have taken care of them. i have never asked him for any money. so there not all women are that way
  • lol,,joined the fucking club!
  • Yup. Marriage is dead and women killed it by insisting on the world and everything it it. Next she'll kidnap your kids.


  • These woman are so pathetic.
  • It will get better.
    My bf ex-wife is the same way. I wish she would just vanish from our lives. She doesn't really love her kids. She even told him that she regrets of ever having children. She constantly emails him for money when he is already paying her $11k every month. I am not kidding.
  • I call these woman little maggots.
  • My husband Ex wife's idea "decisions & choices" when it comes to their kids is if he will "decide or choose" to give her cash or a check.
    I've told my hubby on more then one occasion that I wonder where it is that she "swipes that card" on him to have him pop out cash...
    It's terrible.
  • get a backbone and stop paying the shit. if it's not court ordered done't do it. pay for your kids and tell her if she doesn't want to work, she'll have to live on the streets while you take your kids. don't be such a pushover, id take $70,000 a year to if you just handed it over.
  • I would bash her head in with a cinderblock.......
  • LMFAO at "I would bash her head in with a cinderblock"
  • Anger and nasty words does not solve problems here and I understand your need to vent. My Bf's ex-wife doesn't want to work to help herself or her kids. She tried to suck my Bf dry when they were together and expects more and more. She met someone on-line and left her family to be with someone else so my Bf doesn't have to pay child support because his oldest child lives with us full-time and they share custody of the youngest child. he pays for the health insurance and for the car payment for her car(the loan is in his name so he doesn't want to ruin his credit).I have two children of my own and only get $50 a month for child support. I left my husband because he was an alcoholic and abusive. I had to struggle to survive and went to school to better myself and my children's life. I met this wonderful man who is a great father and we put our money together to support both of our families. I do get very irritated that she just leeches off her sugar daddy and expects a hand out....I sure didn't get one. I had to get foodstamps and assistance to better myself and it seems like she is too good for that!.... My Bf take responsiblity for his and my children. But I realize that I can't change peoples behavior and it is a total waste of time. When I have had a long day and I'm tired I do get pissed off because while her kids are here and I am taking care of them and mine she has no kids to worry about or paying bills or anything! My kids don't even see their father because he is a loser who lost his license and he took off out of state. My Bf is a wonderful father and a loving partner. I see more men getting the shit end of the stick and it is not right! And I am not one of those ex-wives who suck of their ex....I worked very hard to make a better life for myself and my children!
  • Stop paying NOW! If it is not court ordered that you pay this amount, STOP. I did the same thing for my Ex - and I ended up having to pay that amount for the next 14 years because the judge decided that since I could "afford" to pay all of the bills before the order, I could afford to continue to pay the same amount until my children were 18.
  • cinderblocks huh?....not a bad idea :)

  • t sounds like you were married to my husbands ex-wife, i dont know wants wrong with some of these people, when i got divorced, got child support and did not ask for anything else from him,
  • 'm a girl and i dont understand why most dumb bitches do that shit. i could never do that to a guy and it makes me sick they make us all look bad. its fucked up the court system seems to favor lazy bitches that want a meal ticket. hell, prostitution should be legal, seems like either way to many guys end up paying for ever sticking their dick in a woman, that way they'd know the price up front
  • Don't be so fucking weak and stupid. Pay the CS and cut the bitch off.

    http://www.thehappymisogynist.co
  • You married her and you left her, til death do us part not til divorce do us part. Maybe she should get a job but since you left her she is probably depressed. You should have worked out your marriage then you wouldnt mind taking care of her. Sucka!
  • yea, I've become a ball and chain to my husband now too. Why? Try 5 years of no sex! When I was working and paying bills, I realized I was not getting any happiness, so now, I go to school, and he works. That way, I can support myself and afford a plot for him in a rest home when I get out of school.-leech
  • We're going through the same thing with my boyfriend's ex-wife. Fortunately, I was able to gather enough proof that she had a "significant other" living with her that she didn't dare attempt to collect maintenance. But she is getting $820/month in child support that none of which is spent on the two children. For school shoes, she bought them each a $6 pair of generic WalMart croc-style shoes. We buy them things and they go home with it and it never reappears. I'm not sure if she's eating it or selling it or what.
  • piss on the ex-wife. dont pay her a dime til the court says so. also, the cinderblock sounds like a good idea.
  • Sounds like you are stressed, I suggest you need to see a doctor right away. This is what you need to do, go on medical leave from your profession due to stress (ex-wife) and depression (70,000). This may seem drastic but, use up all your medical leave and sick leave. Have you lawyer reduce your alimony and child support due to being on short term disability. Continue to remain on unpaid medical leave, so you will probably won’t be able to afford your home or car, etc. You will probably have to file bankruptcy and move in with your parents. Meanwhile this lazy gold digger will get job, because she will not be able to live that life style on government assistance. She will not allow her children to suffer and live in homeless shelters. Once this divorce is over, pay the b!@$& extra child support not visiting the kids, because you will never have the real relationship with the kids until they are 18, then move to another state. Otherwise you will live in a white padded cell taking blue pills all day.


  • when my husband first pursued me he said his shit was taken care of...wrong! his ex wife lives in homeless shelters when there is no support given to her lol so that about sums her up... he makes a lot more money than when he was married to her...she cant really find out what he makes(besides her being illiterate) but i feel the problem is my husband he should get a lawyer hell she cant afford one! and go from there this female i assume cuz she has kids bi.... me and him cant ever talk to her yet he rather deal w her than the court hmmmmm who is the problem...yet my husband is well more knowledgable than she i dont understand y he deals w a woman that basically im going to eventually leave him over cuz im tired of the drama i have ex's no drama i will cut their ass off!!!

  • Cunts there all cunts!
  • Look here! U have the power to make this situation what U choose to make it! Don't complain and continue to shell out 70K...Not all women are like this and Im sure there were signs before U married her that she wasnt wifey material. Remember money is the root to all evil and it possess great power. Cut it down to a reasonable amount for the childrens welfare and seek positive alternatives so the 2 of you can become cordial & civil for the benefit of the children involved. Otherwise STFU and deal with the monster you created!!!!
  • Sound like you guys are ready to HOOK UP with each other....

    GAY TENDENCIES!!!
  • My ex has got me for child support (which I don't mind paying at all) and alimony. We have been divorced for 4 years and I pay her $4000/month so she can stay in the house and keep her new car. When it comes to divorce, men do not get a fair shake, and that's the understatement of a lifetime. We divorced because she was cheating, but she convinced the judge she cheated because of mental abuse! She now has this asshole living with my kids in my house! He is a district manager for a very large retailer, so he makes very good money, but he is living off my dime and there's nothing I can do about it. I keep telling the judge every time she hauls me back to court for more money, that she has a new live-in boyfriend who makes over six figures per year. She lies and says she is alone and "struggles to pay the household bills on what LITTLE I give her". She does not work, and my two boys tell me that he is living there, but mom makes them say otherwise if they are in court. All I can say is that I agree, women are bloodsucking leaches that have everything in their favor. If they have the opportunity to kick a guy in the balls, they will do it without hesitation. Women SUCK!!!!
  • It works the other way too: I've been paying for my lazy-ass boyfriend, because he believes in "equality", yet he always mysteriously loses his wallet when it's his turn to pay.
  • pregnant bitch of wife doesnt work smokes cigarettes takes painkillers. women are looking for a free ride . divorce then i have to be broke the rest of my life. maybe the fucking whore will come down with lung cancer!
  • I have three boys that I pay child support for. My ex wife and the guy she cheated with got married and use my money not for my kids but their lifestyle. I'm having trouble paying my modest mortgage since I had been laid off for a few months for christ sake and she has a three car garage, a classic show car, and recently bought two motorcycles for themselves. They don't pay for the kids clothes and shoes. They cut off the boys music lessons and she is getting motor cycle lessons!! Gee, who is the priority here???? What a bitch!!!
  • Men are willing to support there mothers who left there fathers and are looking for there son to support them. buy them gifts,do there chores, offer them emotional support, but not there own female partners, there own mothers can be total bitches and treat there sons female partners like bitches saying there sons female partner is a lazy bitch just like there son would call there female partner a lazy bitch, by copying the way there mothers treat there partners, mothers use there sons up, for gifts, cash and helping her out with chores emotinal support, but in the end these bitches that created and birthed these sons get a free ride from there sons, and in the end alot of women who don't work are called bitches. Men come from bitches.
  • I believe that a woman who sacrifices her own career and works to put a husband through school or supports his career while she raises children is entitled to some compensation at the point of divorce. However, I do not think that women who never work, refuse to work, spend all the money, create debt and have NO children - should get a dime at the point of divorce. I believe the same should be true in reverse. Child support is never negotiable - kids deserve to have those benefits but the system provides no overwatch and many will spend child support on everything but the kids. My significant other has an ex-wife who destroyed him financially and refused to work and then demanded half of his paycheck, cosmetic surgery and a list of other BS she thought she could get. I've worked every day since I was 19 (I am now 41) -put myself through college and graduate school, own property, have investments and I need nothing from him in terms of money. Nor would I take anything from him. If she ever tried to take him back to court for more alimony I will hire a vicious attorney and shred her in court. Then she will really find out what having resources is all about. Alimony laws are antiquated and need to be updated. They worked 30 years ago before women were in the workplace in force - now, many are just looking for a free ride with no effort of their own. It makes me ill. So please, don't assume that all women are "leeches" or lazy. Many of us are not - we work hard and earn our own way.
  • Oh by the way I am the new wife of the man that has been taken for a ride.. he is the best freakin dad, friend and lover I ever met. He makes his money and gives her half of his take home pay.. while she tries to get the kids on the free lunch program and now wants to take her kid to the medical doctor for fear of having to pay half of a 20.00 co pay. Not to worry though because I have taken her kids to the doctor, the dentist and the eye doctor for the last three years. Good grief women like this give us all a bad name. The weird thing is when my ex husband and I got a divorce we just went down to the paralegal after we split our assets and the furniture. What is wrong with people???

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