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Send to a friend Tomorrow is our two year anniversary and all he's done so far is piss me off. He even tried to kick me out on the street with our baby. Things lately have been going wrong left and right, and I'm starting to really hate the people we're living with. Not that hate where you don't like someone, but if they started being nice to you, you liked them again. No this is a hate so powerful it's about to end my relationship with my husband because he chooses her side over mine. I don't know what I'm going to do, I want to leave so badly. But I don't want to put our baby in the middle of all of this. He just pisses me off so much. Our baby woke up at 2am because when he arm locked me I screamed in pain and he picked her up and brought her into the living room instead of just leaving her alone and letting her sleep. He didn't do anything to her but keep her up longer, but I was scared for her safety. I kept asking him to put her back to bed, but he just ignored me and told me if I'm so mad maybe I should hit him. Well I'm sorry if I'm not mad enough to hit him while he has a baby in his arms, but he has before. Even when I was pregnant with her. I just have no where to go if I leave. I haven't had a job in almost 2 years so I can't support us. I don't know what to do anymore. I just wish that b*tch would leave us alone and we could get enough money to move out of here and maybe get things back to normal. But I don't know, It's been like this for a little more than two years. Even before she came along. Maybe we just weren't meant to be together. But it's so hard, I cry just thinking about divorcing and leaving him. Even though he's done all of that stuff to me. And his mom doesn't like me. She actually said he's a good little boy and he deserves better. He's been physically abusing me for two years, even through the pregnancy, and she KNOWS it. There have been plenty of times where she's witnessed it happening. Ugh, whatever.Comments
- Wow. That's terrible.
Who are the people you are living with? Who is the "she" you refer to?
You should never stay in a relationship where there is abuse, especially physical abuse. He will never change and it will never stop.
Don't stay there just because it is hard to leave. Usually, the right thing to do is not the easy thing to do.
Next time he hits you call the cops and report him. They make make him leave the premises, then you can have a little peace.
Make him leave and you stay. Divorce him and make him pay child support. - Thats the answer...Divorce him and make him pay.....You bitches are all the same....Money hungry pigs. GET A FUKKIN' LIFE! GET OFF YOUR FAT ASS AND GET TO WORK. LOSE SOME WEIGHT AND MAYBE YOUR HUBBY WILL FUCK YOU REAL GOOD, IDIOT. AND P.S. .......SUCK A DICK EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE.
- leave him. not for child support. leave him for the safety of your child and yourself. if you don't then i guess you are too selfish to care about your kid's safety....and perhaps care more about this fantasy that he will change. call the low income properties in the area...find one....then, go to your local courthouse and get a no-contact order...take people who have witnessed this abuse with you....you can get out....and you better, because all you will do by staying is fuck up your kid...and kids don't deserve that.
- go to a womans abuse shelter! get the hell out of there....if he is abusing you...god only knows what he will do to that baby. think abut the baby...not him.....you dont have to find a job right away...just get that baby and urself out of that situatio
- Maybe if you didn't complain so much, your man wouldn't have to "tell you twice".
Women only pay attention to hot, wealthy men. Maybe if you women would pay attention to men who don't have 10 other women, you wouldn't get pumped and dumped and/or beat all the time.
Shallow ass women! - Whoever posted about her not complaining so much her man wouldn't have to "tell" her twice...You obviously have low self esteem and should really stop over compenstating by trying prove you still have a dick.
Girl - I know what its like to stick with someone because its a roof over your head and you've got no place to go. Here's my suggestion. Get a part-time job. Make some friends at that job. Save some money, take your baby, and get the hell out. It only escalates the longer it goes on, and it never "goes back to normal".
It's far better for the baby if you leave as well. I'm giving that advice from the child's point of view. Abuse is learned, be it physical or mental, and if continously exposed to that your daughter will seek those type of men in her relationships in life. Spare you both the pain.
Remember you are amazing no matter what he or any of the other fuckheads say. - Give him his child and fuck off.
- You should leave him, staying in that type of relationship is not good for the child. If he abuses you again call the police, get a restraining order and file for divorce, you will have to start looking for a job but until then you can use social services to carry you over until you get some work.
This is my suggestion for you and your childs wellbeing.
This from a male by the way.
Good luck,
Luc - I only have one thing to say to that
and that is that you are a fucking LIAR.
Women have something wrong in their
head which makes them think that they
do nothing wrong, and always play the victim.
Try showing some empathy for your husband cunt,
if you even now what that means.
I wouldnt have put up with you nearly that long. - luc you're a fucking fag
- There is never an excuse for domestic violence!! There are "free shelters" to protect you, call information or look in your yellow pages. Your man is a coward for having hit you.
If you want your marriage to survive. His behavior needs to be more appropriate. Once you tolerate a poor behavior, it will continue. You obviously love this man....but you need to uphold your self-respect and dignity, otherwise your child will be a victim of abuse.
There is free counseling, use yellow pages, your church, and that's what family & friends are there to help you. - Once you contact social services and they move you to safety you will be able to think more clearly. You probably can not sleep, eat or think clearly. Social services will get you to safety, help you recover, find a job and a place to live. Given 6 months you will wonder why you have stayed as long as you have. It is only a matter of time till he hurts your baby. Think of the baby. Protect her and get her out of there.
- He told you to hit him? That sounds like it's been you who has been beating on him. But wait, I forgot, women beating men isn't abuse. I guess it's the same when a farmer whips his mule.
And you haven't worked in 2 years? I mean WTF you lazy tart. Get a freaking job. What happened to all that feminist BS about women being equal to men and working. Or maybe you think you are some princess who can leech off a man for the rest of her life? Yeah that's it. I can see the entitlement in your words. You think he owes you like a slave owes his Mas'er.
Marriage is an equal partnership and it looks like he's making an unequal contribution. Well, it's unequal if we don't count your complaining.
And since you want to be a princess you should just divorce him and get on welfare. I'm sure the rest of us will just love to support you and your soon to be bastard. - I just wanted to add that some women stay at hoome with their children before they start school because daycare costs more money than the mom may make. The men responding to this post are ignorant.
No PERSON has the right to abuse another person.. EVER..
Get out with your child. There are many programs out there to help. Maybe contact A Safe Place. - This is obviously not the place to be looking for answers. If you are truly concerned about your safety and well-being (and I hope you are) I suggest you take a proactive approach and seek out help from a shelter or counseling center.
From the answers above (from the men obviously), it appears it would behoove you to not air your laundry in public. Have concern for your child above yourself. - Get out of there. This whole situation sounds very messed up, and if you stay there your child will only become messed up from whatever they have to witness.
- Women need to suck a dick and shut the fuck up!! Always crying about being mistreated.....if you really feel that you are then have some self-respect and enough value for yourself to fucking LEAVE!!!!!! Endof story
- This is the biggest farce of a forum I have ever seen and I cannot believe all the hog-wash I'm reading from such low-life scum of the earth loser men out there. Its no wonder so many married women are leaving their H's for women! Such incompetent stupid fools...
- nobody deserves to be beat on or treated bad, there are shelters out there, you'll be a stronger person when you get away
- Suck a dick and shut the fuck up, huh?
No one (male or female) has the right to physically harm another human being. Period.
There are places you can go, shelters are an option. I left my abusive ex-husband with the clothes on my back and with two children under the age of two in tow. I didn't ask him for money, I didn't stay because I didn't have a job. I got the fuck out. I lived at a shelter, I worked as a waitress, and just did it on my own. I had his rights pulled from the children and divorced him. I didn't ask for any money in the divorce, even though I could've.. I just didn't want anything from him anymore. Now I'm teaching high school, and am married to a wonderful man, have been for ten years, not to mention he adopted my children as his own.
And I don't even suck dick that often. ;-P - His mom said "he's a good little boy"?My BS meter just redlined...
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