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- You should just shut up and do what he says. Maybe you secretly want to be a man?
- Ha! I had to check the Category this post was made in. I thought you were talking about women giving the silent treatment when they hear something from men they don't like.
- Have you considered that maybe men have feelings and your castrating she bitch man-hating femi-nazi PC Fascist ways are slowly sucking the life out of him? And that maybe instead of defending himself to someone who obviously regards him as a piece of shit ie. MAN, he instead withdraws from the conflict that you started instead of rising up like the Marxist Working Class to seize the means of (re)production by her neck and squeeze it until her head pops like a 3 day old pimple!
Or maybe he's just listened to you henpeck him so much that he tunes you out like the heavy machinery at work. - I wonder if the author is reading the responses, but here goes.
If you are not just ranting and at some level want to improve your relationship with your husband, you need to listen to him better. I make that claim with some certainty because if you were creating a welcoming environment for your husband to speak to you then you wouldn't be calling him a child. Some people don't want someone to challenge their views and they become experts at shouting down their opponents. Then they are shocked and angry when people engage in guerilla warfare.
Next, the woman who wrote this should think VERY VERY carefully at generalizing about men being childish. Either she is generalizing about men which indicates that she has a negative attitude that's not going to help her get close to her husband or, and this is almost as bad, she encounters this behavior from men regularly indicating that this is a reaction to her own behavior.
The silent treatment isn't necessarily evil. Sometimes people are not in a mood to listen to you (either they are overenthusiastic about what they are doing, or they are being inconsiderate because they are distracted, etc.) and there is no way to get through to them without getting in a yelling match. So being "silent" is like a way of drawing attention to the moment. It's like turning off a radio in a room full of loud children. They quickly stop talking and listen to what you have to say.
The answer to her last question is to not let it get to her. If someone wants to be silent, they have a right to do so. Really. That doesn't excuse you from caring about their feelings but rather you have to open the door and invite them in and wait for them to do so. After you've done that, you have a moral right and even responsibility to just drop the issue and let them speak up when they sense that you have provided them with the space to do so.
I hope she's reading this because if her husband is still around, he clearly wants to get along with her too. - Maybe instead of assuming the problem is his, maybe the problem lies with you. Maybe instead of sulking, his is depressed from having to live and put up with you. Oh, by the way, If he was to tell you something you didn't want to hear and you got upset about it, I doubt you would want to accept that you were just simply being a baby. A woman like you would probably try to come up with a reason why what he is telling you is some how differnt from what you have told him. Its called being a hypocrite. If you don't like being told that, then don't be a baby and get over it!
- He's not sulking..he is just ignoring you. It's the best thing to do with a woman because women are irrational and unreasonable and have bought the feminist cult of 'self-divinity'. They are amoral and completely unable to understand the concepts of right and wrong. Given all this....men are well advised to just ignore women most of the time. Talking to them is just a complete waste of time nowadays...took me 32 years of talking to women to realise they were all lying. It's just that they were all telling the same lie so it sounded like the truth. Men...you want good advice? Just ignore a woman when she is trying to tell you "something you don't want to hear"
- Don't listen to those others they are probably sulking men too who still want to be in diapers and get breast fed. My husband does it and it is annoying. If he doesn't get what he wants, he will stomp up the stairs, throw himself on the couch, turn the t.v up real loud and not talk to anyone the whole night. Now if that is not sulking then it is a temper tantrum and I am NOT dealing with a 50 year old man he acts like a baby. It really makes me made but like most books on child rearing say ignor the tantrum and don't feed into it. Even my two children are blown away buy this behavior.
- By not going online to a forum where you will most likely receive bad advice/disgusting criticism.
Be the adult and communicate with him. And stay off of internet forums. - Most men just don't do it.... hence Angus Buchan's desperate call to all men to venues where they can go to hear the truth about how to treat their wives and children. Most men were'nt given good examples by their fathers on how to treat their wives and women in general. Unlike men, womens' perceptions of feeling good about themselves, life and coping in general, is not generated via their vaginas - the days when we as women were given to believe that men have sex with us because they love us has loooong since expired. We are not just there to help men "unwind" so they can feel strong enough to face any problem ahead (until the next 'caving in' moment and we have to spread our legs for them again so they can feel "on top of things" again). Shame on you men for pretending it to be otherwise! Talk about faking it!!! You brought the anger of the very ones you were supposed to love (not meaning sex! sex! and more sex! - because that is NOT showing love, it is demanding EROS!) We need friendship, kindness, protection and care (and when we smile it is NOT necesseraly a chance for men to get into our pants). There is more to us than what is beyond our navels! We initially welcomed sex, until the cruel truth revealed how men have actually been using us for sexual gratification. The use of sex has become the only medium of dealing with life's problems because they never bothered to develop characteristics such as self control, empathy, faithfullnes (instead of devouring strange women with their eyes, with their wife or girlfriend walking beside them). We as women are tired of feeling used, abused and abandoned.
- If a man acts like a baby, do what I do. Treat him like one, I've tied my husband down, diapered him, fed him a bottle and have my friends come round to laugh at him.
Just tell him he is a baby and dominate him, MEN ARE BABIES, MEN SHOULD BE DIAPERED, so use this advice and baby your husband too.
But the first step is to tell him he is a baby, then work up to fully diapering him. Reduce 'Mr. Tough Guy to a snivelling baby. Then do things like, at night stick a pacifier or bottle in his mouth.
Then you should think about sleeping pills, or tying him down. Explain to your friends and bring them over. Then all of you take off his clothes, put talc on his privates and diaper him with depends or tena.
All women reading this, do this to your men and show them that MEN SHOULD BE DIAPERED!!! - I have a diaper fetish, and my wife treats me like a baby and humilates me in front of her friends. I'm not allowed to use the toilet... You're right... Men should be diapered...
- I agree...men are just little babies in adult sized bodies.
You will be amazed at the change in their attitude when you get them into a diaper and take away all adult bathroom priviledges.
It doesn't take long for a man to accept his new status as he comes to realize that they are nothing more than a baby in comparison to women. - I SO AGREE WITH THAT!!!
But this is a womans natural thoughts, as women we are natural nuturers and as men they are natural babies. So lets do this thing and get men into diapers!
But thankyou for the person who posted the original diaper idea, 'cause my boyfriend has an all new lifestyle of babyhood (I actually think men like it when we rub talc on their privates lol, so in a way we'll ALL be winners). - your cunts
- women are cunts
- That's the sort of language will get you a spanking young man!
- that's okay, let his ass SULK !
the day he has to wear pampers just let him shit himself & give the baby his wipes & then tell 'em he can sulk all he wants now.
- This diapering is how women are playing into the sado-masochism of the homosexuals.The aim is to reduce the US to a country of hopeless dependents.Funny,usually when women want to humiliate men,they try to portray them as...WOMEN.How does that fit into your "self-esteem"?This would be sickening if it weren't so obviously fiction.
- Unlike men, womens' perceptions of feeling good about themselves, life and coping in general, is not generated via their vaginas..yeah,men let their vaginas "generate" "perceptions"...have you read what you've written?What a buch of gobbledy-gook!
- "But this is a womans natural thoughts"..I'm glad to hear one of you finally admit it.LOL..."I'm not allowed to use the toilet".
Did your big,strong wife keep you from the bathroom?My wife knows that if she didn't let me use the bathroom,I'd use the bedroom.Cause I don't really care what it looks like or smells like.Calling women on their bluffs works EVERY TIME - ww, so cute how you think that men have rights! they don't, they're babies and the diapering thing's kinda weird but it's the only thing that will work on stupid, pathetic men like you!
- I tried the diaper treatment,it took awhile.coaxing and a little blackmail with some pictures i took of him I am speaking more and making more decisions.He has stopped drinking like he did, beer is given to him in a baby bottle He can only drink 3 to 4doesnt go out with the guys that often and he doesnt pee on the seat or foor anymore ,if you know what Imean,IM close to having him off his cigaretts!Im not going to tell anyone about thisIM SUPRISED THAT THIS TREATMENT HAS CURED HIM OF A LOTTA BAD HABBITS! im going to take his bottles away (BA BA)and let him keep his binki.I have him nursing now so cute to look in his eyes while he suckling at me breast and i feel hes going to bring milk soon.are children are grown and gone,,,,some would call this weird or kinky its between us and ive found that it worksHES TRULY FEELING BETTER HEALTHIER have fun ladies with them and enjoy life!
- taking pictures to blackmail him is cruel,and making more decisions only if it has made your lifes better.beer bottle drinking is cool,Iwanna try it.Ive heard of it and they say you get drunk fast easy and cheap on the pocket.if a baby bottle could get me off cigs.Id go back to the bottle..and id wear diapers ..she would haft to put them on me. and only wet ..nursing and breast milk is good for you ,it would bring you close
- One reason he walks away and is giving you the silent treatment is that keeps him from kicking the shit out of you. Did you ever think of that?
It might be a good idea to let him have some space. You have probably hurt him, and he needs time to heal. But, I guess you don't care about that, do you. - Without going into the details of how she did it, I'll just say my wife put me in my place... I'm back in diapers whenever she feels it is necessary and as LONG as she deems appropriate. This is often. It's embarassing and humbling.
(He is always supervised, too, ladies! He doesn't get to play on the computer unless I approve. He's gotten to be such an ATTENTIVE little hubbie!!!) - y wife caught me nursing one of her friends who had just had a baby , immediately i was made to wear diapers, be changed in front of her friends, bottle and breast fed and made to use a pacifier, she also always has one of her friends or sisters babysit me when she goes out, she has a real man boyfriend and i am her baby
- think if some of these mothers stop treating mens like they is babys they can grow up and act like a man and stop thinking that womens should take care of them and treat them like there mothers do a man should baby his woman not let the woman baby him.
- My wife started diapering me on our honeymoon 5 years ago. Now I do all the housework,cooking and laundry. She exposes me in front of her girlfriends and allows them to spank me if I am naughty. She started a local women's group whose motto is"Women are in control. Men should be in diapers". She currently has 6 members. meetings are held at our house with the men in diapers and a pacifier so they can not talk.
- Men should be in diapers 24/7!
- I knew before we were married, that my husband slept very deeply, and usually wore protection at night, as he did not wake up when he needed to pee.
He was a bit embarrassed when we first slept together, and tried wearing his normal underwear to bed. After a few wet nights, I suggested that he should be wearing diapers. This progressed from just diapers, to wearing a short nightie, and getting diapered as soon as he arrived home from work. That was five years ago. I now diaper him every night, put his nightie on, and either breast feed him, or give him a bottle. He has a pacifier most of the time. I put him to bed at 9:00pm every night, and have an hour or so to myself, before retiring. It may not be everyone's idea of a good marriage, but it works well for us. I don't have a husband that goes out drinking with the boys, and I don't have any arguments. I did have to give him a few spankings at first, until he realized that I was the mature adult, and he was going to do what I said. I don't humiliate him in front of others. On weekends, he is diapered all day, and wears a romper. he wears his man clothes over his diaper if he is mowing the lawn, but whenever indoors, he is dressed as an infant. - My wife puts me over her knee and gives me a bare bottomed spanking whenever she thinks I need one. It started on out wedding night I found myself bent over her knee as she tanned me where the sun don't shine and hasn't stopped spanking me since.
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- My husband is diapered at home. In fact, he feels priveledged if he is allowed NOT to be diapered. Make no mistake, a diapered husband is a managable husband. It isn't my intent to embarass him publically, but the threat keeps him in line. I have met a few like minded lady's through the internet and we have actually met on occassion. It's was so amusing watching our "boys" romp around the house in diapers. Not to mention the look of total dismay on their faces when they learn that diaper changes amongst like minded girl friends has no regard for his personal modesty.
- Holy Wow!
I totally commend this post.
I really hear what the women are saying. All guys come to me expecting to mother them and be their provider. So I do for a time, expecting them to change into real men, who they are supposed to be. But they never do.
And I fall for it all the time. And they never change. They all come flocking to me to take care of them cuz they can't themselves. Like a little boy with their thumbs in their mouths.
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