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I knew it was coming from a false place but recently she proved it. She threw a huge public fit while my husband was coaching his son's baseball team.
Both the ex and her mother started yelling at me over something my husband had said. My own children were there and she was bawling and calling my husband and asshole. I tried to joke with her at first but it escalated from bad to worse.
All the while, children and parents were watching us. I tried telling her to just deal with this later by talking to my husband after the game but she insisted on keeping it going. She and her mother kept telling me that I do not know my husband and that they feel sorry for me because I do not know the real (husband's name). The whole thing turned into a spectacle. The next day she emails my husband and says that we can not take the boys on our family vacation in August because they will miss too much school.
She had already previously agreed we could take them- now the day after this incident she has suddenly changed her mind. Since that night I have been running through things in my mind to say to her. Then I tell myself the best thing to do is say nothing and just hope that she feels stupid when the dust settles. I hope her mother feels stupid as well. They both made asses out of themselves but I was also quite embarrassed by their attack. I kept saying that I was sorry but I was on his side and I would always have his back. I mean really, what is she trying to accomplish by bitching to me about the man I am married to? I need advise on the perfect thing to say back to them or just tell me to rise above it all and say nothing. If your advise is the latter then please tell me how to get through this angst I am dealing with now.
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- I voted "Say nothing".
I suggest keeping your communication with the ex to a minimum since she sounds like a retarded, dumb ass psycho bitch.
Don't sit near them at future events if possible.
Rule #1: Do not engage lunatics.
If a similar situation is forced in the future, refuse to engage in the dialog. Just say, "I am not interested in having any conversations with you regarding my husband or the children. You should have those discussions directly with him."
Then get up and walk away.
You are a good person for watching your husband's back, but avoid these public spectacles.
To get through the angst you are dealing with now, realize this:
- You are a way better person than her and her stupid mother.
- She most likely acts like this because she is not happy with her life and she is jealous that you and your husband seem to be happy with yours.
She is a low-life, clueless, self-centered loser.
- Kevin, The site Admin. - People who can not contain themselves while in public need help. She is one of those sad women who likes to deal with problems in public because she has nothing else to be proud of in public. She sounds like a weak woman who is jealous. Stay away from weak people. They usually only hang around other weak people who know they have to feed her ego. Be better by being quiet. The general public will recognize this woman's weakness even if they don't tell her she was weak. Just know that you are a better person because you tried to stop the public spectacle. She sounds so frantic and weak. Stay away from her!
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