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She went nuts. She started calling all the time. She started calling all day and night. She would email the entire time and text message. We started finding note on out cars. She would pass the apartment through out the day. I would see her do it when I was outside. She would have her friends pass along messages. She would blackmail us.
See at the time my husband was on probation in another state. His probation officer said he could go to that state but not get caught because he was not supposed to be in that state. She used this to her advantage. She threatened us with this information all the time if we did not do what she said. We could not call the police for this reason either. She was crazy!
We changed all our emails, phone numbers, and even moved. My husband had to leave his old friends behind because they were her friends too. We had to change our phone number 3 times.
The last time she tried to take us to court saying we were stalking her because she heard that we were planning to get married and we were. She did this because I am in the military and have a clearance so this was a way of getting back at me. This was about a year after I and my husband were together. We got all the proof together. We even got letters together of witnesses including her former boss and some of her friends. I had emails she sent to my work and I had my work authenticate them. She also harassed me on the internet so I brought all the proof of her harassing me online.
The judge through her case out and told both of us to stay away from each other which is just fine with me. She still cyber-stalks me and leaves messages for me online but I have put thins thing to rest. We are completely out of the state and in another state and doing great. She can look at what ever she wants to look online as far as I am concern because I have nothing to hide;-) I am happy and everything worked out.
Last I hear of her she was married and happy;-)
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- It sucks to have to deal with that, but it seems you are handling it well
Posted 1 month ago - Thanks! My recommendation for anyone dealing with this situation is to save everything! Save emails, notes, voice messages, text messages, and anything on the internet. Have witnesses write letters and keep a journal. Make sure you not each incident in the journal with the time and date. Give good detail in it. Mke police reports and save them. Record each time you have to change a number or email and explain why.
If anything ever does happen int the future this stuff will com in handy! SAVE IT ALL!
Posted 1 month ago - The funny part is that this sounds like my wife's former boyfriend's ex-wife. She tried to run them over in his front yard one day.
The freaking stupid part is that you have a clearance and were screwing around with a man on probation. And was he married? Leaving aside the UCMJ Article 134 violation (adultery) you put yourself in a position for blackmail that could have severely compromised the trust placed in you to guard our nation's secrets. You should be ashamed of yourself.
Posted 1 month ago
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