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nosy ex-wife!!

Well your situation sound somewhat familiar. My fiancee and I have problems with his ex-wife. She is nosy, money hungry, and very selfish and inconsiderate! We are engaged and we are getting married this spring, but she has the nerve to ask personal questions about how much the wedding might cost, and if my Dad is going to give us money for our wedding. I am almost 40....why would my Dad need to give us money?

He has 3 kids that are younger than mine. My kids are older, but I have a teenage daughter at home.I have 4 kids. Anyway we have to plan time together , because he travels during the week for his job. He has the kids EVERY weekend, which makes it a challenge for our time together.

She will give him a hard time if he asks to take a weekend to spend with me. She lays on the guilt trip about his son being sad, and that he is letting his kids down.My fiancee is a wonderful father, so the guilt trip works and we cancel our time together and then I travel to his house 3 hours away. I have to stay in a hotel, or at my cousins house , because we are not allowed to stay overnight in the same house until we are married.

So here we are, no time alone, and his ex just keeps on pushing me to my limits. I love him very much and want to get things straightened out before we get married..you know lay out some rules for her to go by.I hate that she is so inconsiderate of my feelings. He pays her on time every month, and he pays alot!!!! She always wants to know "our" business, but when he asks any question about her life, she says "you know it's really none of your business". She is greedy and selfish! I just had to vent!!! There I feel better already...let me go and get my beer!

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  • What happened to seeing the kids every other weekend? That is the norm. Every weekend is not like it's some special treat to the kids. Weekdays are different than weekends and they need to experience some weekend fun stuff with their mother too. This is purely manipulation on the ex-wife's part disguised as "it's all for the sake of the children", which is bullshit.

    And what's the deal with not being able to stay in the same house until you are married? First of all, it's the year 2009, not 1909.

    Second of all, if you want to set some pure wholesome example for the kids, or whomever, why don't you sleep over in another room?

    This sounds like ex-wife manipulation too.

    If you are getting married, you should by all means be spending time with the kids with him.

    I think some things need to change before you get married. This is no way to live a life now before you are married and it is certainly no way to live a life after you are married.

    Good luck.

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