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His ex is driving me crazy!!

I have been married to my husband now for over 5 years and been with him over 7. He has a daughter with his ex wife and when I tell you that this woman is a psycho, trust me, she is a psycho. In the beginning, it was the normal 50 phone calls a day, phone calls that pertained nothing to the child. She has tried to have his business license taken from him. She has called the IRS on us. She has turned all of his family against him. She was using the child to get her way for a long time until we finally put a stop to that. One day, she called DSS on us and told them we were on drugs, we got drunk every weekend the child was with us, the child was being neglected and that the child was being sexually abused in our home. We took our drug test, which were of course negative, the other crap spoke for itself when the social workers came into our home. Well, after the fist drug test, they kept coming back to do random drug test because she kept calling in saying the same crap. We finally made the decision that the child just stop coming. It was sad, but it was the only way we would ever have any piece in our home. The child by the way was so brainwashed by her mother, that you couldn't hardly deal with her anyways. It has been over 3 years since we have had any dealing with the mother or saw the child and to this day, his ex is still doing her same psycho stuff. She runs my name all over town, down-grades me like I am nothing, she puts my husband down to everyone that will listen and makes everyone think she is the best thing in the world and we are these horrible monsters. He pays his child support and I have kept every piece of paper in a folder so when she grows up I can put that folder in front of her and let her make her mind up on which parent was sane and which was crazy......What else can I do?

Posted 19 hours ago

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  • Wow! It's amazing how close that sounds to my situation!

    I would be the ex-husband in this case. My ex-wife has done ALL the same things, called the IRS, Child Services, bad-mouthed all over town ... everything you said.

    Unfortunately, I had to do the same thing. I gave up my visitation to avoid the ongoing dramatic fiascos and the kids being used as weapons.
    Posted 2 weeks ago
  • the ex called cps on us as well saying that her child was being sexually abused now we are 2 and 1/2 years into it and just now they started to supply the mom with services..they finally figured out mom is a wack job! In the mean time I did like you and made a folder of all the court records for the child to read when she becomes of age.
    Posted 2 weeks ago
  • y boyfriends ex IS a cps worker and she called abuse on us too! took me 6 mos to get it overturned to unfounded (it completely was; she had step daughter, 8 at the time so brainwashed; still does) he has three kids by her and it is a nightmare; he continues to have visitation, but she jerks him around with their so called verbal schedule and BF puts up with it! Lets his ex do what she wants; she already has completely poisoned the three against him and me! as well as her entire community BUT she keeps going back for more child support, that's for sure. So for the privilege of paying over half your salary in child support, you too can have your own flesh and blood pee in your face and tell you it's raining!
    Posted 2 weeks ago
  • There is nothing more you can do, unless you take her to back to court and then you are looking at slander or defamation of character charges. But then you might not want to spend the money on this.

    You are doing the right thing by hanging on to every piece of paper to use in the future.

    Hopefully you don't live in too small of a town. If you live in a larger town, is there a possibility that you could move to another part or side. Where I live it is a fairly good sized town and we moved to the northeast side, and she was living on the south east side. The only thing that sucked was that I worked on the military installation and so did she (before she moved to CA) and she said a lot of crap about me. I was able to go to her supervisor and put a stop to some of it. They eventually fired her because she wouldnt shut up about me or he ex-husband (who also worked on the military installation).

    To be honest there is not much you can do, except do you best to ignore her and not get sucked into her games. Which I know is much easier said then done.
    Posted 2 weeks ago
  • I have been with my fiance for 2years now and finally legally got divorved. We are supposed to get married but they call each other or he talks about their past alot. I found a text he sent her where he told her she was the real one he wanted to be with.He told me it was because she was threatning suicide again that is her excuse for everything. I am in a slump I dont know what way to go.When she found out he was getting the divorce she asked him to stop it.
    Posted 2 weeks ago

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